Praise be to Allaah, the Lord of the Worlds.
If what is described in the question is true, then it is a lesson and a
warning about how sin can destroy homes and families. Every Muslim must repent to Allaah
and give up sin and disobedience.
It is very strange that this sister does not want to write down her
reasons for asking for divorce. She should respond to this request what harm could
it possibly do?
If the influential person who is responsible for the affairs of the
Muslim community in that place sees that there is no possibility of reconciling the two
partners and continuing the marriage, he should issue a divorce (khula
divorce instigated by the woman) freeing her from the husband, on conditions that are
We ask Allaah to protect our families and the families of all Muslims
from fitnah (temptation, tribulation), and to rectify all our affairs.