Praise be to Allaah.
It is not permissible for guardians of orphans to give them
their wealth until he feels that they have become mature, i.e., that they
will conduct their affairs well and not spend it on haraam things. The time
for giving it to them is not when they reach adolescence, rather it is when
he feels that they have become mature after they reach adolescence. Allaah
says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And try orphans (as regards their
intelligence) until they reach the age of marriage; if then you find sound
judgement in them, release their property
to them”
[al-Nisa’ 4:6]
A person is no longer considered to be an orphan once he
reaches adolescence, and adolescence is recognized by a number of things:
the growth of coarse hair in the pubic region, reaching the age of fifteen,
and emitting maniy (i.e., reaching sexual climax) whether awake or asleep.
It is the same for both men and women, except that there are two additional
signs in the case of women, namely menstruation and pregnancy. It says in
al-Mughni (2/139): “Adolescence is reached when a person experiences a wet dream, or reaches the age of fifteen, or grows coarse hair in the pubic region. In the case of girls there are two additional signs: pregnancy and menstruation.”
Shaykh Muhammad ibn Ibraaheem in al-Fataawa al-Jaami’ah li’l-Mar’ah al-Muslimah, part 3, p. 1129