Praise be to Allaah.
we advise you to go to one of the nearby mosques or Islamic centres, and
try to go there as often as possible. This will let you get to know some
righteous sisters and benefit from what you hear from them.
man whom a woman agrees to marry should be committed to Islam and should
adhere to its rulings and morals. Other attributes and characteristics are
a matter concerning which people differ.
regard to the education and upbringing of children, one of the most
important factors in their upbringing is creating a good environment for
them. This includes choosing a suitable husband; choosing a suitable home,
in an area among righteous people and people with whom one would like to
make friends; choosing suitable schools for them; keeping the means of
corruption out of the home; having a good relationship between the husband
and wife; husband and wife being in agreement concerning matters of
child-rearing so that there will not be any conflict or contradiction
between them. It is also important for the parents to read some suitable
books on raising childre, to learn from those whom they think have raised
their children well, and to set a good example to the children.